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Friday, 7 June 2019

Search for Meaning!

June 07, 2019 2
Search for Meaning! 

 

Most of the people are trying to find out the meaning of life with family, friends, through business, entertainments, and other ways. But still, some people ask these questions, again and again, to search for meaning. What is the purpose of one’s life on earth and what are the ways and means to find out the real meaning of life? When we try to find out the meaning of a simple word, we search in the websites, dictionary and other sources. Do you think, we could find the meaning of our life from above tools which I have mentioned? We need to think and ask questions.   In order to get meaningful answers, we need to ask some important/reasonable questions to ourselves. What are two essential gifts given by God to everyone equally?  What do you think, is it money, land, family, friends or what else? God did not make any compromise in this case. It is one’s birth and death. Birth is to live and death is to recall, repent and feel proud of the good deeds you might have done in the life span and get ready for the next life cycle.

We came to know, what are the two precious gifts given by God and these gifts were given to everyone equally without any requests, recommendations, payoff or based on any caste, religion and colour. It is provided to each one of us equally to find the meaning. How to add meaning between one’s birth and death?  Before that let us have a clear understanding of what is life? According to my life is, how one travels between birth and death is called life. I think you all will agree with me.

We can find the real meaning of life by asking two questions if we do not ask those questions, it is impossible to add meaning to life. Those questions are:

1. Who am I?
                                    2. What is the purpose of my living?

I am reminded of a question asked by my eminent teacher, who are you? While I was studying in 9th standard this question was asked to me several times. The next two years I was never concerned about that question. When I was doing my first-year graduation the situation again called to ask the same question, who am I?  This was asked by my teacher. Today I stand the answer of question as a social worker. Now I am the way to find the purpose and meaning of my living by loving, caring, sharing, motivating, lifting up the wounded minds, being pillars to fallen hearts, etc. Friends, there are three categories of people who are travelling between birth and death. Now let you know where you belong to.



1.                    The first category of people never ask these questions and become a curse for others and become bear land to others, they won’t cultivate as well as never allow other to cultivate too and do not ever have a concern about others. They are always the most selfish and troublesome to others.

2.                  The second category people will ask those questions and when they are taken up by happy moods, worries, disappointments, they easily forget those valuable questions and move ahead as they wish. They will regret at the age of 60 about those questions, thinking not able to find the meaning for those questions.

3.                The third category people will mark those questions in their mind and move ahead to make a great difference to add meaning to their life and pull others along with them to show the meaning in their life. Few notable examples are Mother Teresa, Dr.A.P.J Abdul Kalam, Brand of Leadership former Indian captain M.S Dhoni, American author, Helen Adams Keller and many more.

It is time to put these questions before you to decide, which category you belong and where and how you want to travel to find the meaning for your life. Make difference in others and that will make you different from others.

A. SELVENDHIRAN
   




Tuesday, 4 June 2019

Think Positive!

June 04, 2019 4
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 Positive thinking is a little thing that makes a big difference!

Hi friends, I am Selvendhiran (author) and welcome you to my blog Think Positive!

What is it that fuels you? For me, I love essay writings about my passions, motivations, inspirations what interest me, what interests others and sharing all of my thoughts with my readers. It is truly my own little passion project, gaining more and more traction each day. I hope you enjoy browsing my site and all of the unique content I have to offer. Take a look around; perhaps you’ll discover what fuels you as well. Read on and enjoy!


A positive attitude is not gifted by God, but it is an attitude that every individual approaches towards the animate and inanimate things which cure all the negative attitudes of a person. As everyone would accept me that an attitude plays a pivotal role in everybody’s life because this will show, one’s personality in the society. A person’s attitude will not be changed unless the person empties his negative approaches called “I know everything”. This has to be emptied from the personality of the vessel one’s mind. If we try to accept and respect the situations around us, this will bring a tremendous change in our life.
I shall meet you on different topics and you may suggest me to your interest topics too. Post your valuable comments and suggestions. Let us grow up together.
                                               
A.Selvendhiran